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What do the following have in common: a man
becomes tongue-tied when he asks a woman he secretly loves for
a date; a country’s ethnic and religious violence escalates
into a war of genocide; and a popular teenaged girl experiences
overwhelming guilt and depression and then thinks about committing
suicide because of them? In all these cases and others like them,
the being within each of us—who we are before everything
else—can be mostly if not entirely responsible for these
emotions and actions.
The being in us truly is the engine of human
existence because nothing has a greater influence on our own lives
and on human life as a whole. But astonishingly, almost all of
us are unconscious of our own being’s existence and of the
being in anyone else.
Being and Life: On Becoming One’s Being
(Ontology Press), a new book by Scott K. Smith, describes in detail
the impact our being has on many aspects of our lives: on our
emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and values. “Many people believe
our deepest nature is the cause of our problems, but in fact it
is our alienation from our being that is ultimately to blame.
The more we understand the being that is in us,” Smith says,
“the more we see that most of the problems of most of us
come solely from our alienation from who we truly are. Whether
we are conscious of it or not, our alienation diminishes our lives
profoundly.”
Being and Life also explains what men
and women think and feel as they become more their being, which
is very difficult. The pain that comes with trying to develop
a being-to-being relationship, the feeling that one is “not
living fully in life,” the root emotional cause of the Cultural
War: all of these emotions and understandings, along with countless
others, spring directly from the sensing and then the misunderstanding
of the being within us. Our being is responsible for the very
best and the very worst in us, and the only way we can become
it at its best is to understand it fully. For all of us as individuals,
couples, and citizens, nothing is more important than ending our
alienation from ourselves and from each other.
Being and Life (6"x9" trade
paperback, 320 pages, $19.95, ISBN: 0-9718379-5-3) is available
from bookstores (through Baker & Taylor), Amazon and other
online sellers, and OntologyPress.com.
To schedule an interview or to request a review
copy, e-mail us or call 530-389-2737 or fax 530-389-8458. For
more media information visit our web site at www.OntologyPress.com.
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